RELATIONSHIP
PHILOSOPHY
Out of your head. Into your heart. Without losing your sanity or self-respect.
Relationships can be one of the most fruitful parts of our lives when we approach them with the proper perspective. That perspective goes against much of what we were taught as children, what we see in movies, and what we have been told success in a relationship should look like.
LIKE IS GREATER THAN LOVE.
ALL RELATIONSHIPS MATTERS.
NOMI IS KEY TO UNDERSTANDING YOURSELF AND CREATING CONNECTIONS.
VULNERABILITY IS A PRIORITY.
That does not mean dissolving into a puddle of tears or handing over your life story on the first date. It means treating another person as more than a transaction, and being safe enough for honesty, protective intelligence, and mutuality.
THE BALANCE BETWEEN SELF-LOVE AND LOVE OF OTHERS IS KEY.
We have been taught that loving someone else means that we abandon and sacrifice ourselves. This is why many relationships dissolve into a dysfunctional puddle because martyrdom should not be a requirement for building connections with others.
This is not just about loving yourself. This is about knowing what you need and requiring your relationships to satisfy you and vice versa.
RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT HARD.
A relationship you have to make work does not work. We do not coach people to remain in dysfunction. We look at the separate people, help them get healthier, then look honestly at whether the relationship has a firm foundation.
TO NOMI IS TO KNOW ME.
Needs. Ownership. Mutuality. Intention.
NOMI is the foundation of our relationship work and the human-centered, tech-enhanced resource now in development.